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“The
Loudest Boo for a Home Team Ever”
(Overcoming Criticism: Lessons from Quarterback Alex Smith)
"The Loudest
Boo for a Home Team Ever" is the title of a Youtube video of Alex Smith,
quarterback for the San Francisco 49ers, getting booed one year ago (2010) on
his home field by his “fans.” Some in attendance reported that the boos got even
worse as the game went on, as they tore down Smith and chanted to bring in the
backup quarterback.
(Check out
the video here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbZ22j_X8fE
.)
Problem was,
the fans were frustrated and felt they’d had enough. In the 1980’s and 1990’s
the 49ers established themselves as a football dynasty, winning five Super
Bowls. But for the past eight seasons they lost more games than they won. Their
once storied team had established itself as a perennial loser. How would they
ever reach the playoffs with this second rate quarterback? Their cherished
dynasty had fallen into disarray.
Perhaps Alex
was doing the best he could under the circumstances. Nobody questioned his work
ethic. Perhaps the blame lay with the coaching staff. After all, the team had
changed offensive coordinators seven times in the past seven years. Perhaps his
offensive line wasn’t giving him enough time to complete passes. Perhaps his
shoulder injuries (a separated shoulder, three torn ligaments and a broken bone)
kept him from peak performance. Whatever the case, thousands of fans thought he
sucked as a quarterback and didn’t mind letting him know.
If Alex reads
fan comments on the web, here’s what he’d find in the Youtube booing segment I
just mentioned. These acidic comments began a year ago and continued through the
start of the 2011 season. Try to put
yourself in Alex Smith’s shoes. Have you felt the chill of cold verbal slams
that repeat themselves endlessly in your mind? How would you have felt if the
following vicious verbiage had been aimed at you?
“HE IS A
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSER”
“There's only
so much incompetence a fan can take, and I
cannot
stand Alex anymore behind center. He's a joke!”
“Alex Smith
is going on what, 6-7 yrs. in the NFL? When is this team going to
realize they made a major mistake?”
“Alex
Smith should not be starting for any team in the NFL. He set the franchise back
10 years. Should have been cut a long time ago.”
“Worst
quarterback of
all time.”
“He HAS GOT
TO GO!!! Can’t waste another year waiting on him to put it all together.”
“The NFL is
just too fast for him. Smith sucks!!!”
“No coach
will fix this guy. He's done.”
“Every Niner
fan hates
Alex Smith.”
“Niner fans
hate Alex Smith so much, that
they even boo him in practices. And now Harbaugh wants to bring him back for a
7th season! Smith guarantees failure and deserves the boos….”
“He is ONE
of the worst
QBs in NFL History.”
“They'll
never win with Alex at QB. You need like a hundred coaches and twenty years of
excuses for this bust.”
“When nuclear
war occurs, two things will survive. Cock roaches and
Alex Smith. Seriously, how does this guy still have a job?”
Lesser men
would have quit after the repeated boos and endless criticism, or at least would
have lashed out in response. But Smith patiently endured.
The
Turnaround
This year,
finally, he’s glad he endured, and the disparaging fans are eating their words.
The 49ers defeated team after team as Smith showed uncanny leadership and
completed passes with surgical precision. He threw the fewest interceptions of
any quarterback in his league. His passing record was third in the entire NFL.
They earned a playoff spot by winning 13 games and losing only three – an
amazing season for any NFL team and the Niners best season since 1997.
One month ago, toward the end of their incredible 2011 winning season, the
comments magically changed. Here’s what the recent comments on the same Youtube
video are saying:
“I won't lie, I was booing him at home, too...But I'm
cheering you now, Alex – thanks for proving us wrong and persevering!”
“All these years of being called an idiot and a dreamer have paid off. Now he is
one of the best quarterbacks in the NFL.”
So what can we learn from Alex Smith?
1. Don’t let other’s
discouraging comments control you.
As the 49ers kicker David Akers said of Smith, “I just see a guy that
doesn’t really care too much what people think.”
2. Persevere
through the hard times.
Tight end Davis said, “He’s a strong man. “I’ve been here when Alex was getting
yelled at and everybody was talking bad about him. He tends to keep his head up
and just keeps on moving.”
3. Don’t lash
out against your critics or try to get even.
“He is proof that a struggling player can remain humble and respectful and still
ultimately succeed.”
Reflections
1. How do you think Alex Smith felt each time that he was booed?
2. What do you think kept him going, even when many people had turned against
him?
3. How do we decide when to believe discouraging comments and when to ignore
them?
4. Someone has said that the only way to avoid all criticism is to do nothing
and say nothing and be nothing. Do you think this is true? Why or why not?
5. How can we endure through criticism?
Sources
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/San_Francisco_49ers
;
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alex_Smith
;
http://www.signonsandiego.com/uniontrib/20050424/news_1s24sullivan.html
;
http://sports.espn.go.com/nfl/news/story?id=3579991
;
http://www.nfl.com/news/story?id=09000d5d80ab2163&template=with-video&confirm=true
;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbZ22j_X8fE
;
http://www.webcitation.org/64hl0JLyN
;
http://www.webcitation.org/64loMI4hl
;
http://www.webcitation.org/mainframe.php
Written by J.
Steve Miller for
www.character-education.info , copyright Jan., 2012, all rights reserved.
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